Have you
ever wondered which other women seem to attract the best men?
Sometimes
you can try different strategies to get the man of your dreams, but you don't
seem to succeed. This may be due to some of your character traits. You have to
make sure that you have the good qualities that a good man looks for in a
woman. What do they want?
Feminine
Men are
attracted to the feminine qualities of a woman. It's normal to roll up your
sleeves and be a boy at work, but when you're with your man, you have to show
your feminine side. Among the desirable attributes are attention, compassion,
tenderness, meekness and understanding. It is said that opposites attract and
that is why men are attracted to feminine qualities since they themselves
possess masculine qualities.
In keeping
with being female, avoid being sexually aggressive, especially if you have just
met a man. Making suggestive statements with sexual intonations on your first
date will only scare the man. If you want to flirt with him, stay subtle. Place
your hand lightly on his knee or forearm for a brief minute. If you rush
things, you will look like a slut and make yourself look bad.
Have your own life
Unfortunately,
there are women who spend their lives waiting for a man to define their
existence. She is a woman who just wants to get married properly and has a plan
to be a perfect wife. She has no other interest in life than her man, which is
not at all an attractive quality. Men love women who have their lives and who
have a sense of individuality. You should have your own your friends and your
interests. No one likes being followed by a woman because she only wants what
he wants to do.
Take things slowly
If you want
to lose the perfect man a few days after meeting him, try to squeeze him. You
should start talking about moving in together, having children, or getting
married. This kind of pressure is simply frightening for most men. No one likes
to feel like they have no control over their future and that is how you will
make them feel if you try to squeeze them.
You should
also avoid having too many contacts. Don't keep calling, texting a man you just
met. Let him take the first steps, then follow them. If he texts, answer him.
You can also start communication, but keep it light. Don't overdo it.
Softness
Men are
generally attracted to a woman with a tender heart. No man wants to be stuck in
a relationship with a cold-hearted or seemingly emotionless woman. A woman who
exudes warmth and acceptance is likely to attract men.
The sense of humor
Strong women
It does not
mean physical strength but rather strength of character. A woman with a good,
strong personality is likely to attract men. Men don't like women who don't
seem to have a clean mind. They also don't like women who don't seem to have a
personality at all. You cannot be there so that your presence is not felt. A
strong character is interesting.
You must
also be able to defend yourself. If a man mistreats you, don't just let him get
away with it. If he's late for an appointment, you don't have to have a
seizure, but don't take it lightly, especially if he had no good reason.
Modesty
Most people
think that the beautiful woman who has sex appeal is the one who attracts men.
This is particularly the case if she is a "candy for the eyes" and
dresses in such a way that the men ogle her. However, this first physical
reaction is
usually
temporary. In addition, it is more likely to cause lust, not love. Men want to
settle with a modest woman.
This should
be clear in the way you dress and carry yourself. This must also be the case in
your speech. This means that you must stop swearing if you do it normally.
Dress and act as you would if you met your mother-in-law today.
Trust
It is one of
the sexiest attributes that any woman can have. All men are attracted to a
confident woman. This does not mean that you have to be provocative,
argumentative, combative, but simply that you have to believe in yourself. High
self-esteem manifests itself through character, as does low self-esteem.
However,
don't be overly confident or try to belittle the man. Reminding her that you
have a better job, a better house, a better car or that you are more educated
is not good. You should not flaunt your successes in such a way as to belittle
your man. Your self-confidence should empower them to feel more comfortable
with you. They can even be proud of you. Confidence is an important attribute
in every woman.
A challenge
Men have
been proven to like good challenges. It's just something that appeals to their
masculinity. Don't make it very easy by being too available. It is also not
advisable to take the first step or to pursue. Many feminists will tell you
that it is good to do this, but it is not. You must be pursued and take up a
challenge without necessarily playing the difficult ones.. Let him woo you
instead of showing up to him on a silver platter.
Don't be easy prey
No matter
what magazines or movies show you, sleeping with a guy on the first date or
even the first month of meeting him is not a good thing. No man wants an easy
woman. It will even cause the man to question your morality. Take time before
you jump into bed with him.
Physical
attributes
Smile
There are a
number of physical attributes that men look for in women. One of them is the
smile. If you're the kind of woman who likes to stay
dismal and
serious all the time, you have to relax. Smile more often. A smile will also
soften the features of your face and make you more attractive than a frown that
hardens the features.
Men love
women who smile. A frown will scare away a potentially nice man.
Voice
Sound is
also one of the most important characteristics that men care about. Some are
attracted to a soft voice. Others like a hoarser voice. However, a garish is
not an attractive quality. If you have a naturally high-pitched voice, learn to
control it. You can't talk to a man like you're screaming. It even kills the
romantic mood.
Lips
Men also pay
attention to women's lips. Statistics show that full lips attract most men.
However, whether your lips are fuller or thinner, you need to take care of them.
Do not let them dry out or crack. Use gloss or lipstick to make them more
beautiful.
Eyes
Men are
naturally attracted to the eyes of a woman. This is why, if you want to flirt,
learn to use your eyes well. Holding someone's gaze and then slowly lowering
your gaze or even tapping your eyelids is like flirting. Do not hide that your
eyes are sunglasses, even if they are designer glasses.
You can look
him in the eye without fixing him. Use your eyes to flirt.
The hair
Hair plays
an important role in the overall beauty of women. In most cases, men are
attracted to women with long hair, as opposed to a cut boy.